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   I just read a nice article which is posted by oprah. I hope it will be helpful for you guys. Here we go..

HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN :

 

   
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses
for a man and his behavior. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you
from heartache.



  
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to
be. Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man was
not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A
friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.

   
Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he
probably is. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll
be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you. Avoid men who
have a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry
them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his. Maintain
boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.



   
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within. Don't EVER
make him feel he is more important than you are. Even if he has has
more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He
is a man, nothing more nothing less.


   
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man. If
he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you. A man will only treat you the
way you ALLOW him to treat you. All men are NOT dogs.


   
You should not be the one doing all the bending... Compromise is two way
street. You need time to heal between relationships. There is nothing
cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you. A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals. Look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.


   
Dating is fun... Even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right. Make him
miss you sometimes... When a man always know where you are, and you're
always readily available to him ~ he takes it for granted. Never move
into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Don't fully commit to a
man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your
radar but get to know others.


   
Scared of being alone is what makes a lot of women stay in relationships
that are abusive or hurtful: Dr. Phil says... You should know that:
You're the best thing that could ever happen to anyone and if a man
mistreats you, he'll miss out on a good thing. If he was attracted to
you in the 1st place, just know that he's not the only one. They're all
watching you, so you have a lot of choices. 

  The Conclution is please choose the right one. Ladies
take care of your own heart... ❤